Feature request What do you think of this.....

Feature request
What do you think of this.....

"Dave, I am just hoping you don't see this message in the wrong light. The wife I am married to now, is not the type of woman I honestly wanted to settle down with. My type should have a lot of 'meat' on the skin, both up-front and back-pack. That, is the woman that turns me on - even with my eyes closed.

I love my wife for all the sacrifices she's made for me. I was unemployed when she first met me​. She didn't judge me. She liked our friendship, regardless. She fed me for Three (3) years continually, for no reason, Dave... Just because I was her friend in need at that moment.
When I realized she had fallen in love with me, I had to 'force' myself to love her too, because truth be told, it looked like she was the only one who could see so much good and potential in me during those trying times.

We've been married for Seven (7) years, and Dave, God has been good to us. I am now gainfully employed. I bought my wife a new car. We've built our new home, we have a kid, everything almost seems to be alright, except, now, I am beginning to feel for my 'type' of woman to want to be with.

And because I don't want to seem ungrateful, I have put the house in my wife's name. I'd want to settle her with GHs 100, 000 (it's from the profit I made in a deal), take full responsibility of my kid's needs, and then leave to live my life.
I don't like cheating on my wife. She deserves better, and I fear she may one day find out I have been cheating.

I don't know how to communicate all this intentions in spoken words to her. I don't know how she's going to feel or take my explanations, because she really loves me. Her love is deep and pure: so true a love I have never felt before, but Dave, it's all about love  for me right now. What I want to really make me happy as a man, is not my wife. I want to be free to make my own choice and fall in love with my choice, all by myself. It's not so bad to also want what you want, is it?

How will a woman take this excuse I am giving? And, how do I even begin the conversation with her?"
Over to u how will u want him to go about this....

#copied- anonymous
Kindly leave your comments and your suggestions.

Comments

  1. Unknown9 April 2018 at 10:22

    The only advice i wil give this man is to never take someones love for granted. He Shuld pray to revive the love he once had for his wife..

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  2. Lifexperiences of sincerely naa9 April 2018 at 10:36

    Hmmm, as he said he forced the love and now feels for his type of woman to be with it'll be difficult but it's better than she finding out you're cheating on her. Gather courage! And talk to her

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  3. Friendship9 April 2018 at 10:37

    Hmmm I agree with Doku too one thing I don’t agree on is trapping someone inside a relationship or marriage that won’t benefit both partners

    I think he or she (cos the name Dave i don’t know whether is male or female in this context )needed to make that known first

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  4. Unknown9 April 2018 at 11:26

    She has sacrifice and loved you genuinely yet you want to leave her......this is a hard blow....Dave, work on your love.

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    1. Unknown9 April 2018 at 14:17

      He is really grateful for her help but he doesn't genuinely love her because she is not her type, that yy he wants to leave and be happy with her type of girl.

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  5. Unknown9 April 2018 at 12:22

    Hmmm. This situation calls for serious counseling. If all is well, then parting with the lady using property and money as a bait won't suffice. Tete a tete with the lady would be ideal, only if the gentleman is bold enough to choose words carefully and coerce his wife.

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  6. L.ephya Nani9 April 2018 at 12:36

    This things...the fact that someone helped you doesn't mean you're obliged to 'love' or marry the person. It would have been easier if he'd settled her in the beginning and not necessarily marry her. But how is she supposed to start her life now with kids and being a divorcee?
    He better stay kraa

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  7. FOKA9 April 2018 at 15:35

    Now even am confused,

    First, marrying because of gratitude is a recipe for disaster.

    Second, how did the thought ever cross his mind that if his sexual attraction towards the said lady is minimal at best that their marriage was ever going to endure?

    This is one hell of a hole he's dug himself into.

    Am no counsellor but the truth and honesty as I've seen is a good start to resolve any & all situation.

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  8. Unknown12 April 2018 at 10:41

    He shouldn't have married her in the first place. But has no option now that there are kids. The lady will loose her sanity if he leaves her. Seven good years. Hmmm

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